Reminder:

Friendly reminder to all who call them self a submissive:

Requesting tribute for my time and attention is NOT findom, it's compensation for value.

You pay your therapist for their expertise. You pay your trainer for their guidance. You pay me for the privilege of being in my presence and receiving what I choose to give.

Findom, is about the money itself being the kink. This is about respect. You're not paying to be drained, you're paying because my time, energy, and attention have worth, and if you want access, you contribute accordingly.

Call it what it is: an exchange. You get growth, accountability, and direction.

I get compensated for the work I put in. Anything less is entitlement, not devotion. 💫

You're Welcome!